In “Lili, Where Are You?“, Papa, an elderly dollmaker, is grappling with the loss of Mama. To cope with his grief, he decides to create a doll that looks just like her, using a piece of her clothing adorned with pine tree patterns. He names the doll Lili and takes her everywhere—on outings, shopping, and even in the bath! But one day, Lili mysteriously disappears, just like Mama did.
This picture book tackles the profound theme of loss, making it relatable for both children and adults. Papa’s journey reflects how he channels his sorrow into creativity, demonstrating that art can be a powerful means of healing. The doll serves as a living memory of Mama, helping Papa keep her spirit alive.
The book also sensitively addresses how children understand grief. Many young readers may struggle with the concept of loss, and this narrative provides a gentle way to explore these feelings. It’s a vital addition to children’s literature that successfully discusses death and coping mechanisms, making it suitable for kids over four years old.
Psychologists note that people react differently to the death of loved ones. Some deny it, others seek scientific explanations, while some grieve openly. Papa chooses to create, a choice that not only protects him from further pain but also aids his return to normal life. Through Lili, he keeps Mama’s memories alive.
The book also introduces readers to various professions as Papa searches for Lili, visiting a barber, a shoemaker, an ice cream vendor, and more. This exploration enriches children’s understanding of community and the different roles people play.
The illustrations are a standout feature of the book. While it deals with themes of grief and loss, the vibrant colors—especially the dominance of yellow—transform the narrative from somber to uplifting. The artwork complements the text beautifully, adding layers of meaning and detail about Papa, Mama, and Lili that enhance the overall experience.
Despite many scenes occurring in the same location, the illustrator skillfully varies perspectives to keep the visuals engaging. The images not only support the text but also provide additional insights, making it a true picture book. The collaboration between the author and illustrator, Taravat Jalali Farahani, ensures a cohesive vision, showcasing her talent in both storytelling and illustration.
“Lili, Where Are You?” is a heartfelt exploration of loss, creativity, and community, making it an essential resource for educators looking to discuss sensitive topics with empathy and understanding.
[By Niloufar Nikbonyad]
